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NOTE: We do not have financial resources, but can help guide you to the resources you need or answer specific questions related to veteran or family issues.

Many people think that medical and other benefits are immediately accessible to Veterans. This is a myth. Currently, all medical and other benefits must be applied for by the Veteran. Many veterans are even under the impression that their benefits are "automatic". They are not.

The reality is that ALL Veteran benefits require a separate and often lengthy application process. For the untrained person AND for the veteran, this can be a very confusing and frustrating challenge.

The resources listed here include both public and private agencies. No matter how difficult the VA system is to traverse, there is NO other option. Veterans deserve these benefits. If your veteran is too ill to advocate for him/herself, then you should contact the American Legion, VFW or Disabled American Veterans. Also, there are Social Workers at the VA hospitals that you may call.

Do not give up and do not be intimidated by the process. Do not let anyone minimize your challenge or your frustration. Do what you need to do to get your veteran the benefits they need and see "How to Intervene to Help your Veteran". If you are interested in pursuing change, please read "About VFU" on this web site.

Benefits & Benefits Assistance

  • NEW! American Veterans and Service members Survival Guide. How to Cut Through the Bureaucracy and Get What You Need – And Are Entitled to. By: Veterans for America (2007) www.veteransforamerica.org.  Go to the home page, then to "Our Programs" and then down the left menu to "Survival Guide" A very comprehensive (500 page) electronic book that tells it like it is regarding benefits, services, legal rights, strategies to navigate the complex maze of federal and organizational regulations and procedures, etc
  • NEW! GI Bill Information www.mygibill.org.  Web site launched by The American Legion "to help vets and their families understand the post-9/11 GI Bill that takes effect August 1, 2009. The site includes explanations of different GI Bill benefits, news alerts, online applications.
  • American Legion - www.legion.org. Go to the "About Us" link and then to "Posts" to find an American Legion office near you. You can also look at the "Veteran" link that shows the services they can provide Veterans. American Legion can help you file a disability benefits claim and advocate for your soldier.
  • American Veterans Organization - www.amvets.org.  Whose goals are service to veterans and communities. The agency is also has national service officers trained to help file veterans benefits claims and there are local chapters listed.
  • Disabled American Veterans - www.dav.org.  Go to the "Services" link. It will help explain how to file a disability benefits claim, but you will probably want to locate the DAV office and service representative nearest you and that is also available on that link.
  • Veterans of Foreign War - www.vfw.org. Go to "Programs and Services" to find how they can help you apply for Veterans benefits. They will also have a link that will tell you a local office. VFW can help you file a disability benefits claim and advocate for your soldier.
  • U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs Official site of the primary agency. Provides detailed information on claims submission, appeals and local VA contact information. www.va.gov

    Similar pages:
    VA Forms - www.va.gov/vaforms/
    Disabled Veterans - www.vba.va.gov/bln/vre/
    Veteran Data - www.va.gov/vetdata/
    Health Care Benefits and Services - www.va.gov/health_benefits/
    More results from www.va.gov

    To register a soldier, you must have his Military ID, his DD214 (proof of military service), and any medical records or exam reports that you have available. Only the soldier can register.
  • APPEALING VETERANS BENEFITS CLAIMS can be difficult. The following agencies may be able to assist you in that process. U.S. Court of Appeals for Veterans Claims at www.vetapp.uscourts.gov or (202) 501-5950. The Veterans Consortium Pro Bono Program may be able to help with legal assistance at www.vetsprobono.org or (888) 838-7727. Finally, the National Veterans Legal Services Program may be of assistance for qualified veteran applicants at www.nvlsp.org or (202) 265-8305.

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Counseling

  • NEW! Coming Home Project www.cominghomeproject.net/cominghome. . . "devoted to providing compassionate care, support and stress management tools for Iraq and Afghanistan veterans and their families . . a range of free services: residential retreats; psychological counseling; education, training and consultation; self-care for service providers; and community forums . . . emotional, spiritual, relationship, and reintegration challenges faced by veterans and families before, during and after deployment."
  • NEW! Veterans Families United Foundation offers a list of private counselors in Oklahoma who have expressed a desire to support our service members and their families. Contact Connie Moore, Ph.D. for more information.
  • Give An Hour - www.giveanhour.org. A private, non-profit agency offering free mental health resources for families and veterans.
  • Military One Source - www.militaryonesource.com. This source is a one-stop shop for all branches of the military that includes legal matters, addiction and recovery, readjustment information, immediate counseling and a link to each military branch.

    They also have a 24/7 phone number at 1-800-342-9647.
  • The Soldiers Project - www.thesoldiersproject.org. Counseling services and connections for veterans and their family members; private, non-profit agency.

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Employment

  • America’s Heroes At Work - www.AmericasHeroesAtWork.gov website designed to educate employers about the signs/symptoms of combat PTSD and TBI and to use creative ways to support the returning citizen soldier who may need assistance.
  • NEW! America’s Job Bank - www.ajb.org. This U.S. Dept. of Labor web site lists jobs available in your state and offers help in building an on-line resume that can be sent to prospective employers listed in the job bank.
  • Employer Support of Guard and Reserve - www.esgr.mil. This web site explains the help for returning Reservist and Guardsmen who may be having employment disputes and/or are looking for civilian employers who support our Guard and Reserve. It also has a link to Ombudsmen. This is a group that helps resolve disputes or answers questions about employment related problems for Reservist or Guardsmen.
  • Hire Vets First - www.HireVetsFirst.gov.  This website discusses aspects of successful employment transition for veterans and connections to employers, transition specialist and assistance.
  • NEW! USA Jobs - www.usajobs.gov. This is the official web site for government jobs. There is a link specifically for veterans.
  • NEW! 1-877-743-8237 sign up for an application or get help to walk through the application for help-to-work.

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Homeless Veterans

  • National Coalition for Homeless Veterans. www.nchv.org or 1-800-vet-help Resources for homeless veterans and/or veterans facing homelessness.
  • US Vets Inc. - www.usvetsinc.org. This non-profit organization is dedicated to helping homeless and at-risk veterans in their effort to reintegrate to civilian life. 12 locations across the nation and a toll free number for veterans having challenges with reintegration. Excellent resource.

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Legal Assistance

  • National Veterans Legal Services Program - www.nvlsp.org. NVLSP is an independent, nonprofit, veterans service organization dedicated to ensuring that the U.S. government honors its commitment to our veterans and the parent organization for Lawyers Serving Warriors.
  • NEW! Lawyers Serving Warriors - www.lawyersservingwarriors.com. New website for veterans who need legal representation regarding war related issues. Has a tab that says "request free legal help".

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Mental Health Resources

  • NEW! Coming Home Project www.cominghomeproject.net/cominghome . . . "devoted to providing compassionate care, support and stress management tools for Iraq and Afghanistan veterans and their families . . a range of free services: residential retreats; psychological counseling; education, training and consultation; self-care for service providers; and community forums . . . emotional, spiritual, relationship, and reintegration challenges faced by veterans and families before, during and after deployment."
  • NEW! The Mental Health America Resource Center - www.nmha.org - National Mental Health Association.
  • Military Mental Health Assessment - www.militarymentalhealth.org - This has a mental health self-assessment screening and referral program offered to families and service members affected by deployment or mobilization.
  • National Alliance on Mental Illness - www.nami.org/veterans specific information about Veterans and mental health related illnesses and information for resources for veterans and their families
  • National Center for Post Traumatic Stress Disorder - www.ncptsd.org - Information on PTSD from the National Center for PTSD.
  • Suicide Prevention Action Network - www.spanusa.org - A national suicide prevention organization that provides extensive information that may be helpful for veterans and their families.
  • Suicide Information/Assistance http://www1.va.gov/opa/pressrel/pressrelease.cfm?id=1363 and http://www.mentalhealth.va.gov/ - VA Suicide Hotline and other mental Health support and information

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Needs Assistance

  • America Supports You - www.americasupportsyou.mil. A comprehensive list of organizations that can help active duty, veterans and family members. Resources can be accessed by state, type of assistance needed, etc. All organizations listed on this website have been approved and are non-profit, charitable organizations.
  • Military One Source - www.militaryonesource.com. This source is a one-stop shop for all branches of the military that includes legal matters, addiction and recovery, readjustment information, immediate counseling and a link to each military branch. They also have a 24/7 phone number at 1-800-342-9647.
  • National Military Family Association - www.nmfa.org - providing information to and representing the interests of family members of the uniformed services.
  • NEW! National Resource Directory - www.nationalresourcedirectory.org. The NRD provides information on, and access to, medical and non-medical services and resources across the country which will help veterans and families reach their personal and professional goals as they successfully transition from recovery to community living. Go to your state for specific links to help in your area. Excellent comprehensive website of resources in your state.
  • National Veterans Foundation - www.nvf.org. This is a human service agency committed to serving the crisis and information needs of all veterans and their families. Staffed by a team of veterans who are specially trained in the delivery of crisis information and referral services for veterans in need of medical treatment, substance abuse or PTSD Counseling, VA benefits advocacy, food, shelter, employment training, legal aid, or suicide intervention, have now been served by this unique, one-of-a-kind resource.
  • Operation Homefront - www.operationhomefront.net provides emergency assistance and morale to our troops, to the families they leave behind, and to wounded warriors when they return home.
  • NEW! Red Cross - www.redcross.org. The official site for the American Red Cross. There is a specific link for veterans, offering assistance in emergency financial assistance, counseling and other services. It will direct you to your state site and you will have to call for local assistance. The most promising option is the possible help for emergency financial assistance for basic needs, although it is a minimal amount.
  • Strategic Outreach to Families of all Reservists - www.sofarusa.org. SOFAR:Strategic Outreach to Families of All Reservists is a pro bono, mental health project that provides free psychological support, psychotherapy, psychoeducation and prevention services to extended family of reserve and national guard deployed during the Global War on Terrorism from time of alert through the period of reunion and reintegration.
  • Transition Assistance Advisors - TAA contact list. Statewide point of contact to assist members in accessing Veterans Affairs benefits and healthcare services.
  • USA 4 Military Families - www.USA4militaryfamilies.dod.mil. This website has "10 issues" identified that effect veterans and returning families. When you click on the "issue" that you are interested in, it will have a "Map of the States" so that you can find out what is going on in your area. This can apprise veterans and families of many different types of services/help available at a state level
  • Vet Centers are designed to help combat veterans and their families. There are over 200 community locations and all that is needed is a DD 214 and you don’t have to be registered with the VA to get help. Locate the nearest Vet Center at www.va.gov/rcs.

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Physical Illnesses

  • NEW! Veterans who experiencing any of the following may want to consider more extensive medical evaluations to determine if they have been exposed to "squalene" an adjuvant used in the Anthrax inoculation. Some of these symptoms can "look like" mental health symptoms (headaches, memory loss and cognitive dysfunction), but if any of these other symptoms are present, may require additional medical tests. You can request these tests from your private or VA Medical Primary Care Physician. Go to "Common Diagnosis" link on this site and scroll to the bottom for more information and/or read Antibodies to Squalene in Gulf War Syndrome and Antibodies to Squalene in Recipients of Anthrax Vaccine
  • NEW! AsbestosNews.com - www.asbestosnews.com  - Site offers Mesothelioma informtion for military veterans who may have been exposed to asbestos while serving our country.
  • NEW! Mesothelioma Causes - According to the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, there are currently 25 million living individuals who have served in the United States' armed forces. Millions of these living veterans were exposed to toxic asbestos-containing materials during military service. Visit their website for more information on asbestos exposure, and a complete list of treatment options if you’ve received a mesothelioma prognosis.

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PTSD and TBI Resources/Treatments

  • NEW! PTSD Anonymous www.ptsdanonymous.org.  "PTSDA: Veterans talking with veterans – you are not alone. A future network of local support groups." – this site includes meeting guidelines, rules and facilitator tips adapted from a 12-step model, e.g., "For some, the experience of military trauma causes deep conflict in their spirituality and past relationship to a God or Higher Power." The complementary version of a 12 step format is included .
  • NEW! The Pathway Home www.thepathwayhome.org.  is a new private treatment concept for OEF/OIF veterans with PTSD. There is specific criteria for entry to determine that it is appropriate. The web site offers information and an application for those who meet the criteria.
  • NEW! Women Organizing Women Veteran Advocacy www.vetwow.com.  A resource for women who have military sexual trauma including advocacy and support with related PTSD.
  • NEW! Vets Journey Home www.vetsjourneyhome.org.  A weekend healing process for veterans lead by veterans offering compassion and healing by welcoming veterans home. See You Tube video for more information http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2owSFJmdADA
  • Alcoholics Anonymous - www.alcoholics-anonymous.org - Information on the AA 12 step program and path of recovery and meetings available in your hometown. For people who are using alcohol to numb pain or escape from the here and now and it is negatively effecting their home, financial, work or social life.
  • Codependents Anonymous - www.coda.com - Information on Codependents Anonymous – learning how to live with an addicted person and meeting availability in your hometown. For people who live with someone who is using any addiction to numb pain and escape and it is negatively effecting their home, financial, work or social life.
  • Cognitive Systems - www.Cog-Systems.com. An innovative treatment for mild traumatic brain injury and other neurological injuries that can be done from home
  • EEG Info – Neurobiofeedback Resources - www.eeginfo.com - for more information regarding how biofeedback may help with PTSD/TBI.
  • EMDR - www.emdr.com - Information about Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing and it’s healing potential for Trauma victims (see our "Healing Resources" link for more information).
  • Emotional Freedom Therapy - www.emofree.com - Information on Emotional Field Therapy and it’s healing potential for Trauma victims.
  • Health Journeys - www.healthjourneys.com - Resources by author Belleruth Naperstek for trauma. Invisible Heroes: Survivors of Trauma and How They Heal is an excellent book for PTSD/depression/anxiety and there are wonderful healing CD’s available.
  • Narcotics Anonymous - www.na.com - Information on Narcotics Anonymous and the 12 step program and path to recovery and meetings available in your home town. For people who are using any narcotic for other than prescribed reasons and have an addiction that is negatively effecting their home, financial, work or social life.
  • Return to Honor Workshop - www.returntohonorworkshop.com - The Freedoms Foundation at Valley Forge offers 2 ½ -day training for those who have suffered from the emotional trauma of war – suggested for returning troops several months after their return from "theater".
  • Sierra Tucson Treatment Center - www.sierratucson.com - Private Psychiatric Treatment Center includes treatment for PTSD. May be insurance eligible.
  • The Tara Approach: Healing Shock and Trauma - www.tara-approach.com - Information on an energy healing process that can be helpful with trauma.
  • Valley Hope Treatment Centers - www.valleyhope.com - Private Drug and Alcohol Treatment Centers in the mid-west that offer a variety of treatment options. May be insurance eligible
  • Veterans Helper – Guided Imagery specifically for veterans and their families www.veteranshelper.com a new website that is specifically designed for veterans with PTSD and some helping resources that are available for families to cope. Guided Imagery (see Healing Resources) have been created for veterans and their families.
  • Vet Centers are designed to help combat veterans and their families. There are over 200 community locations and all that is needed is a DD 214 and you don’t have to be registered with the VA to get help. Locate the nearest Vet Center at www.va.gov/rcs

Veterans Children and Youth Resources

War Related Information

This section of the website contains the latest fact sheets and literature on the war in Iraq. Important links from the site are:

The Iraq War Clinic Guide, 2nd Edition

Returning from the War Zone: A Guide for Military Personnel and A Guide for Families

VA Operation Enduring Freedom and Iraqi Freedom Seamless Transition website

For information on how the war may impact soldiers see:

A Brief Primer on the Mental Health Impact of the Wars in Afghanistan and Iraq

 

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